Engaged. Planning your wedding. The Day. Honeymoon. What’s next? And so you enter the world of Married Women. Will you like it? Let’s see…
Where to stay? If you have a place of your own, good for you! When you were single, you’ve dreamt of getting your own house. Buying your own furniture. Deciding the perfect house paint. Decorating your kitchen, living room etc. But what if you have to live with your in-laws? Of course you can’t just move the sofa without asking your mother-in-law. Oh! Let’s not forget if you have sisters and brothers-in law. That’s another tragedy.
Do you know how to cook? They say that a way a to man’s heart is through his stomach. If you know how to prepare a nice meal, you’re saved! But if you just know how to fry hotdogs, bacon and ham.. you’re in deep trouble. There’s no easy way to learn how to cook, but to cook! As a wife, you want to your husband to say “This is good, hon.” But what if he says otherwise, and it took you long hours to prepare a decent meal, only to find out that he’d rather order from McDonald’s…that’s frustrating. Be honest to tell your husband that you can’t cook. And that you’d rather save him from having a terrible meal. Best solution: hire a maid! Let someone else cook for you. From time to time, grab a recipe book and ask your maid to teach you how. Start from perfecting a sunny side up! I’m sure it will work.
Here comes name change. Your IDs needs to be changed, from maiden to married name. Long hours of waiting in the line from getting your SSS and your TIN IDs fixed!
Paying the bills. You hardly care about paying the bills when you were single, because your parents pay them for you. You don’t even have problems budgeting your money because they’re all for you. Who cares if spent your entire one month salary from getting a new cellphone? So what if you have 3 new pairs of shoes? Nobody cares. Because it’s your money. But now that you’re married, one slight mistake, and you’ll definitely hear from your husband. You can’t just go to the mall and buy stuff for yourself without asking him. If he says “yes”, immediately grab your purse and head straight out. But if he says “no”, don’t bother to ask “why”, you’ll end up having a big fight.
So there you ask yourself, “Am I ready for this?”. We’ll there’s no turning back. This is now the world you belong to. It sucks! But you’ll like it! 
